I want to share something that's been on my mind with you. This week alone, in two separate conversations, the same dilemma has come up. How is it possible to achieve success in your career while maintaining a fulfilling relationship?
If you can relate to this concern, you're in good company. To start, quite honestly…
I want to share a story about the power of saying YES to opportunities.
Around six months ago, I stumbled upon a post from a colleague who was actively looking for a coach. In his post, he specified the kind of coaching he needed and provided some insights into his business.
While I have experience working with numerous business owners and solopreneurs, I couldn't help but feel a tad overwhelmed by his description of the ideal coach he was seeking. In fact, I questioned my own abilities and whether I was truly qualified for the role.
But, there was a voice within me…
There is a difference between knowing and BEING.
Knowing is what us very ‘smart’ people do who have the answers for how to run our lives/businesses! (But aren’t fully implementing)
BEING is….
You were born to share your beautiful light.
The part of you that’s completely, uniquely yours.
When we focus on what others are doing…
On the “rules” of how we’re supposed to show up in business or relationships…
That simple truth fades away.
Let’s remember…….
A chat with the seriously inspiring Mara Waldhorn: COO of Hummingbirds! We talk staying grounded in your authentic expression in your relationships + business. ENJOY! Check out our video interview here >>
In our next interview, the warm and relatable Kelley Reynolds shares how she broke out of a cycle of people-pleasing in order to be true to herself in her work and relationships. Check out our video interview here >>
I’ve been chatting with various entrepreneurs and friends about recognizing, honoring, and moving through the fear that holds us back from shining our light bright in the world.
In this first interview, Julia Armet shares how she created her own college major and success in her business by following what she believes, consistently. We chat overcoming fear and her thoughts around connection in relationships.
In late May I was about 2 weeks away from giving birth!
We had the bassinet ready.
The house organized.
But emotionally, I was in this sort of holding space.
I had no clue what to expect when the baby was born.
Like: What does new baby life look like? What's it going to be like NOT to have the freedom go out to dinners, work, talk to friends on a whim?
I was totally excited for the babes (obviously!) but I also wanted answers.
You know how you have this picture in your mind of something that drives you: creating a feel-good business model that supports you financially and spiritually (finally!)? Or being in a fulfilling and easy relationship? Or running an impactful, heartfelt group coaching program?
But if you're honest with yourself, the idea of actually getting the thing you want is simultaneously...scary?
With the devastating news of George Floyd there is obviously incredible anger and upset. Yet another horrific incident on top of all the other horrific incidents, the violence, the killing, the microagressions.
On top of the hate out there, there's a persistent shame, blame, and ridicule online surfacing (once more) -- particularly within the coaching community towards other life coaches who have been less than vocal during this time.
Quick note on this. Understandably, it's disheartening and extremely upsetting for those waiting for their colleagues or the leaders they typically look up to for comfort or guidance...and not witnessing them taking a stand. Yet when this upset is communicated by demand, ridicule, and blame it spreads defense, fear, and self doubt. >>
When was the last time you invested in something - a program, package, or product, and felt like...
"YAY! I'm so excited about this purchase!" Perhaps recently.
Or maybe this was awhile ago.
Either way, what was it that made you say "YES!" ?
My guess is, there was some sort of initial need on your end.
Maybe this program seemed to check all the boxes you wanted checked.
Or maybe there was this intangible thing about it that simply peaked your interest and desire: the way it was presented, the promise it seemed to make.
Maybe it offered the exact solution you were looking for.
Or simply gave you hope and inspiration.
Psychologically speaking, when we purchase something, it's not as much the tangibles that drive us. It's the >>
